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- How to Choose the Right Leadership Resource (Without Collecting Them Like Gym Memberships)
- Early Career: Lead Without the Title (And Without Apologizing for Existing)
- 1) Harvard Business Review (HBR): Leadership Articles + “HBR On Leadership”
- 2) Google re:Work: Practical Guides for Managers and Teams
- 3) FranklinCovey’s “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”: A Framework for Self-Leadership
- 4) Dale Carnegie Training: Communication and People Skills That Don’t Expire
- 5) SHRM: Toolkits and Manager Development Resources
- New Manager: Go From “Doer” to “Developer” (Congrats, Your Job Is People Now)
- 6) Center for Creative Leadership (CCL): 360 Assessments and Leadership Development Tools
- 7) Gallup CliftonStrengths for Leaders: Lead With Your Strengths (On Purpose)
- 8) Atlassian Team Playbook: Ready-to-Run Plays for Team Health and Decisions
- 9) Project Management Institute (PMI) Learning Library: Leadership for Leading Work
- 10) BetterUp: Coaching and Skill-Building Support
- Mid-Career: Lead Through Complexity, Change, and Other People’s Priorities
- Senior Leader: Scale People, Culture, and Decisions (Because You Can’t “Work Harder” Forever)
- + 9 Extra Tools You Can Use This Week (No Permission Slip Required)
- Tool 1) The “Three Questions” 1:1 Agenda
- Tool 2) SBI Feedback (Situation–Behavior–Impact)
- Tool 3) “Feedforward” (Future-Focused Improvement)
- Tool 4) DACI for Decisions (Driver, Approver, Contributors, Informed)
- Tool 5) A Two-Column Delegation Brief
- Tool 6) The GROW Coaching Conversation (Goal, Reality, Options, Way Forward)
- Tool 7) Working Agreements (Team Norms You Can Actually Enforce)
- Tool 8) A Monthly Team Health Check
- Tool 9) The 30–60–90 Day Leadership Plan
- Real-World Leadership Experiences (The Extra You Asked For)
- Experience #1: Leading Without Authority (AKA “Why Won’t Anyone Just Do the Thing?”)
- Experience #2: The First Feedback Conversation That Makes Your Hands Sweat
- Experience #3: Delegation That Backfires (And Makes You Want to Do Everything Yourself)
- Experience #4: Managing a Team Culture You Didn’t Intend to Create
- Experience #5: Senior Leadership PressureWhen the Problem Isn’t Effort, It’s Systems
Leadership is a lot like fitness: everyone wants the results, nobody wants the awkward first week where you’re sore in places you didn’t know existed.
The good news? Leadership is learnable. The tricky part is choosing the right learning inputsbecause “be a better leader” is not a plan. It’s a wish you
toss into the universe like a penny in a fountain, except the fountain is your calendar and it’s already full.
This guide rounds up 16 leadership resources that work at every stageearly career, new manager, mid-career, and senior leaderplus
9 extra tools you can start using immediately. No fluff. No “wake up at 4 a.m. and drink confidence.” Just practical resources that help you
lead yourself, lead others, and lead outcomeswithout turning into the kind of manager people “accidentally” forget to invite to meetings.
How to Choose the Right Leadership Resource (Without Collecting Them Like Gym Memberships)
Before you dive into the list, do a quick reality check. The best leadership resources match your current situation, not your aspirational “future CEO”
montage. Ask yourself:
- What’s my leadership job today? (Influencing without authority, managing people, leading change, setting strategy, etc.)
- What’s my biggest friction point? (Feedback, delegation, conflict, clarity, motivation, time, team dynamics)
- What format will I actually use? (Short articles, podcasts, courses, coaching, toolkits, assessments)
- What does “better” look like? (Fewer fires, clearer priorities, stronger relationships, faster decisions, healthier team culture)
Pro tip: pick one resource for ideas (learning), one resource for skill practice (doing), and one tool for
consistency (repeatable habit). That trio beats bookmarking 47 tabs you’ll never open again.
Early Career: Lead Without the Title (And Without Apologizing for Existing)
1) Harvard Business Review (HBR): Leadership Articles + “HBR On Leadership”
When you need sharp, research-informed leadership advice in bite-sized form, HBR is a reliable go-to. Use it to learn how leaders communicate, handle change,
navigate hard conversations, and make decisions under pressurewithout requiring you to enroll in a three-year program or become best friends with the word
“synergy.” The HBR On Leadership podcast is especially handy for commuting, walking, or pretending you’re “just thinking” while you’re actually
learning.
Best for: building judgment, communication, influence, and modern management habits.
Try this: Read one leadership article a week and write a two-sentence “How I’ll use this” note. That tiny step turns reading into behavior.
2) Google re:Work: Practical Guides for Managers and Teams
Google’s re:Work library is refreshingly concrete. It’s not “be inspirational”; it’s “here’s how to create effective team habits.” Explore their guides on
team effectiveness, psychological safety, feedback, and manager development. Even if you’re not a manager yet, these resources help you understand what good
leadership looks like from the insideand how to contribute like a leader now.
Best for: leading projects, shaping team culture, and learning evidence-informed management behaviors.
Try this: Use one re:Work concept in your next meetinglike clarifying goals, roles, or normsthen ask for quick feedback afterward.
3) FranklinCovey’s “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”: A Framework for Self-Leadership
Before you can lead other people, you need to lead your own attention, priorities, and reactions. The 7 Habits framework is widely used because it’s
memorable and action-oriented: be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, and so on. It’s not magic. It’s structure. And structure is
what saves you when your week turns into a pileup.
Best for: building personal effectiveness, prioritization, and relationship skills.
Try this: Make “big rocks” for the week3 outcomes that matter mostthen protect time for them like you protect your phone battery at 9%.
4) Dale Carnegie Training: Communication and People Skills That Don’t Expire
Some leadership “tips” age badly. Human psychology does not. Dale Carnegie training emphasizes communication, confidence, and relationship-buildingskills that
become more valuable as your career grows. If you dread speaking up, giving feedback, or handling tension, this is a practical place to build those muscles.
Best for: communication, persuasion, presentation, and building trust.
Try this: Practice one specific behavior this week: ask two clarifying questions before giving your opinion in a meeting.
5) SHRM: Toolkits and Manager Development Resources
SHRM is a strong resource when you want “how-to” guidanceespecially around leadership development, people management practices, and the realities of managing
humans inside organizations (not robots who never get sick or have feelings). Their toolkits can help you understand the building blocks of leadership
development, from onboarding managers to creating learning plans.
Best for: people-management fundamentals and building consistent management practices.
Try this: Use SHRM-style clarity: define what “good” looks like for a task before delegating it.
New Manager: Go From “Doer” to “Developer” (Congrats, Your Job Is People Now)
6) Center for Creative Leadership (CCL): 360 Assessments and Leadership Development Tools
CCL is well-known for research-backed leadership development, including 360-degree assessments. Why does that matter? Because most leaders have blind spots,
and blind spots don’t disappear through positive thinking. A structured assessment plus reflection helps you identify which behaviors to keep, build, or stop.
Best for: self-awareness, behavior change, and targeted development plans.
Try this: Ask for feedback from three angles: your manager, a peer, and someone you support. Look for patterns, not compliments.
7) Gallup CliftonStrengths for Leaders: Lead With Your Strengths (On Purpose)
CliftonStrengths can help you name your natural talents and turn them into consistent leadership behaviors. Used well, it’s not a label (“I’m a Strategizer”)
but a development conversation: how you motivate, communicate, and make decisionsand how you can partner with others to cover your gaps.
Best for: leadership style clarity, team development, and coaching conversations.
Try this: In your next 1:1, ask: “What’s one strength you wish you could use more at work?” Then remove a barrier.
8) Atlassian Team Playbook: Ready-to-Run Plays for Team Health and Decisions
The Team Playbook is a goldmine for managers who want action, not theory. It includes “plays” like working agreements, roles and responsibilities, and the
Health Monitora structured way for teams to self-assess and improve. If your team feels stuck, unclear, or quietly annoyed, a play gives you a script to
reset without making it weird.
Best for: team alignment, decision clarity, and improving how work gets done.
Try this: Run a working agreement session and set 3 norms your team commits to for 30 days.
9) Project Management Institute (PMI) Learning Library: Leadership for Leading Work
Leadership isn’t only people management. It’s also leading outcomesprojects, timelines, stakeholders, and trade-offs. PMI resources help you strengthen
influence, stakeholder communication, and delivery leadership. It’s especially useful if you’re a “leader without direct reports” (which is most of the
workforce, most of the time).
Best for: leading cross-functional projects, influencing stakeholders, and getting results.
Try this: Map stakeholders by influence and interest, then tailor your updates: executives want decisions; doers want specifics.
10) BetterUp: Coaching and Skill-Building Support
Coaching can be a fast track for leadership growth because it turns insight into practice. BetterUp offers coaching at scale, often focused on leadership
development, resilience, and behavior change. If your biggest challenge is consistencyknowing what to do but not doing itcoaching adds accountability and
reflection.
Best for: habit change, confidence, leadership presence, and navigating transitions.
Try this: Pick one micro-skill (like “ask before tell” in coaching conversations) and track it for two weeks.
Mid-Career: Lead Through Complexity, Change, and Other People’s Priorities
11) McKinsey Insights: Teams, Transformation, and Modern Leadership Practices
Mid-career leaders often face a new level of complexity: cross-functional work, competing priorities, organizational change, and pressure to deliver outcomes
through systemsnot heroics. McKinsey’s leadership and transformation insights can help you think in models: how teams work, how change sticks, and how leaders
scale impact beyond their own effort.
Best for: leading change, organizational effectiveness, and strategy-to-execution thinking.
Try this: When a change initiative stalls, ask: “Is the issue clarity, capability, incentives, or behavior modeling?” Fix the real constraint.
12) Korn Ferry: Leadership Development + Assessment Ecosystems
Korn Ferry is useful when you’re thinking about leadership as a system: assessment, development journeys, coaching, and measuring progress. Their insights can
help you connect leadership behaviors to talent strategyespecially important as you move into roles where you build leaders, not just deliver work.
Best for: leadership strategy, assessments, and building leadership pipelines.
Try this: Define 3 leadership behaviors your team needs this quarter (not 17). Train, reinforce, and reward those behaviors.
13) Deloitte Insights: Inclusive Leadership and the Human Side of Performance
High-performing teams aren’t built on vibes; they’re built on trust, inclusion, and the ability to speak up. Deloitte’s work on inclusive leadership helps
leaders focus on behaviors that make teams strongerespecially in diverse, hybrid, fast-moving environments. If you want innovation and accountability, you
need a culture where people can tell the truth early (before the deadline tells it for them).
Best for: inclusive leadership behaviors, culture building, and collaboration in complex teams.
Try this: In meetings, ask one question that invites dissent: “What are we missing?” Then reward the first honest answer.
Senior Leader: Scale People, Culture, and Decisions (Because You Can’t “Work Harder” Forever)
14) U.S. Army Leadership Doctrine (ADP 6-22): Values, Competencies, and Levels of Leadership
Military leadership resources are often surprisingly practical because they’re designed for real-world complexity, high stakes, and imperfect information.
ADP 6-22 outlines leadership foundations, echelons of leadership (direct, organizational, strategic), and the importance of character and competence. You
don’t need to be in uniform to learn from the clarity: values, standards, and “gets results” as a real competency.
Best for: leadership fundamentals, character-based leadership, and scaling leadership levels.
Try this: Write your “leader’s intent” for your team: purpose, priorities, and the standard you won’t compromise.
15) Harvard Kennedy School Executive Education: Leadership Skills for Complex Environments
At senior levels, the work becomes less about tasks and more about decisions: trade-offs, stakeholders, negotiation, and public-facing complexity. Executive
education programs can sharpen strategic thinking and practical leadership skills through real-world cases and structured learning. If you’re leading across
systemsgovernment, nonprofit, business, or communitythis type of learning can level up your decision-making toolkit.
Best for: leadership decision-making, negotiation, and leading in complex environments.
Try this: Before a big decision, list your assumptions. Then test the two most dangerous ones.
16) Vistage Peer Advisory Groups: A “Board of Advisors” for Leaders
Leadership can be isolating. Peer advisory groups reduce that isolation by giving you confidential space to pressure-test decisions with experienced leaders
outside your company. A strong peer group is part coaching, part accountability, part reality checklike having a mirror that doesn’t lie, but also doesn’t
yell at you.
Best for: senior decision-making, perspective, accountability, and leadership growth through peer learning.
Try this: Bring one decision, one conflict, and one priority to your next peer discussion. Leave with one next step for each.
+ 9 Extra Tools You Can Use This Week (No Permission Slip Required)
Tool 1) The “Three Questions” 1:1 Agenda
- What’s going well?
- What’s getting in your way?
- What would make this a great week?
Keep it simple. Consistent 1:1s build trust faster than dramatic speeches. Bonus: you’ll catch problems while they’re still cheap to fix.
Tool 2) SBI Feedback (Situation–Behavior–Impact)
Feedback gets easier when it’s specific. Describe the situation, the observable behavior, and the impact. Skip mind-reading. Your team is not a psychic
hotline.
Tool 3) “Feedforward” (Future-Focused Improvement)
Instead of relitigating the past, ask: “Next time, what’s one thing you’ll do differently?” This reduces defensiveness and turns feedback into forward motion.
Tool 4) DACI for Decisions (Driver, Approver, Contributors, Informed)
If decisions keep circling like a raccoon around a trash can, assign roles. One Driver owns the process. One Approver makes the call. Everyone else knows
their lane.
Tool 5) A Two-Column Delegation Brief
- Outcome: what “done” looks like (quality, deadline, constraints)
- Autonomy: what decisions they can make without you
Delegation fails when leaders hand off tasks but keep all the decisions. Clarity creates speed.
Tool 6) The GROW Coaching Conversation (Goal, Reality, Options, Way Forward)
When someone brings you a problem, don’t jump straight to solving. Coach them through clarity: define the goal, name current reality, explore options, and
commit to a next step.
Tool 7) Working Agreements (Team Norms You Can Actually Enforce)
Examples: response-time expectations, meeting rules, “how we disagree,” and what “urgent” means. Write them down. Revisit monthly. Otherwise, your team will
quietly adopt norms like “panic” and “guessing.”
Tool 8) A Monthly Team Health Check
Once a month, rate a few basics (clarity, workload, collaboration, trust) from 1–5. Discuss the lowest score first. Improvement is easier when it’s routine,
not a crisis.
Tool 9) The 30–60–90 Day Leadership Plan
For new roles: learn in 30, improve in 60, scale in 90. Include stakeholders, wins, risks, and what you need from your manager. This turns “good luck” into a
strategy.
Real-World Leadership Experiences (The Extra You Asked For)
Leadership advice can sound clean on paperuntil you’re living it. Real leadership growth usually shows up in messy, human moments that don’t fit neatly into
a motivational quote. Here are common leadership experiences people run into across career stagesand how the resources and tools above help you handle them
with less stress and more skill.
Experience #1: Leading Without Authority (AKA “Why Won’t Anyone Just Do the Thing?”)
Early in your career, you often lead projects before you lead people. You’re coordinating timelines, aligning stakeholders, and nudging progresswhile no one
technically reports to you. The breakthrough is learning that influence comes from clarity and trust, not job titles. PMI resources help you manage
stakeholders and communicate priorities, while HBR and Google re:Work sharpen your meeting habits: define goals, clarify roles, and make next steps
unmissable. The practical shift is simple: stop asking for “thoughts” and start asking for “a decision” or “a next action.”
Experience #2: The First Feedback Conversation That Makes Your Hands Sweat
Most new leaders avoid feedback until it becomes unavoidablethen it arrives as a dramatic monologue that nobody enjoys. The fix is a repeatable framework.
SBI feedback turns your message from “you’re being difficult” into “in yesterday’s meeting, when you interrupted twice, it shut down discussion and we missed
key information.” It’s still uncomfortable, but it’s fair. Dale Carnegie-style communication practice helps you stay calm and direct, and a coaching model
like GROW helps you move from blame to solutions. Over time, feedback becomes less like a thunderstorm and more like routine weather: not fun, but manageable
and sometimes necessary for growth.
Experience #3: Delegation That Backfires (And Makes You Want to Do Everything Yourself)
Every leader has a moment where delegation feels like a scam: you hand something off, it comes back wrong, and now you’re behind schedule and mildly
resentful. The lesson isn’t “never delegate.” It’s “delegate with a brief.” The two-column delegation toolOutcome and Autonomyreduces confusion and
prevents the silent failure mode where someone is afraid to make a decision. FranklinCovey’s focus on prioritization also helps you decide what should
remain on your plate versus what should be developed in someone else. Delegation is not just task distribution; it’s talent development with deadlines.
Experience #4: Managing a Team Culture You Didn’t Intend to Create
Culture forms whether you design it or not. If leaders don’t set norms, teams often default to the loudest voice, the fastest responder, or the person who
schedules the most meetings. This is where Atlassian’s Playbook shinesworking agreements and health checks give you a low-drama way to reset expectations.
Deloitte’s inclusive leadership lens helps you notice who gets heard and who gets ignored. Google re:Work’s focus on psychological safety reminds you that
teams do better work when people can ask questions, admit mistakes, and surface risks early. The most effective leaders make “how we work” a visible topic,
not a secret guessing game.
Experience #5: Senior Leadership PressureWhen the Problem Isn’t Effort, It’s Systems
At senior levels, working harder rarely solves the real issue. The challenges are structural: unclear decision rights, misaligned incentives, competing
priorities, and change efforts that stall. McKinsey’s insights push you to think in systems (teams, transformations, operating models), while Korn Ferry helps
connect leadership behaviors to talent strategy and outcomes. Peer advisory groups like Vistage add a powerful ingredient: perspective. When you’re too close
to a decision, a trusted peer group can help you see what you’re not seeingand act before small problems become expensive.
Bottom line: leadership isn’t one skillit’s a set of habits. Pick three resources, apply one tool this week, and repeat until “leading”
feels less like improvisation and more like competence.
